Violet Winter

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 28


Sunday, April 20, 2008

“It says here that by the age of 21 he had already stabbed his girlfriend once in the abdomen, who bleed to death, and he then died of a heroin overdose when he was bailed out of jail.

. . . it really makes me wonder what I’m doing with my life.”

“Ours has been called a culture of narcissism. The label is apt but can be misleading. It reads colloquially as selfishness and self-absorption. But these images do not capture the anxiety behind our search for mirrors. We are insecure in our understanding of ourselves, and this insecurity breeds a new preoccupation with the question of who we are. We search for ways to see ourselves. The computer is a new mirror, the first psychological machine. Beyond its nature as an analytical engine lies its second nature as an evocative object.”
-Sherry Turkle

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 27


Saturday, April 19, 2008

“This is like that time we were in Vienna, at the sausage festival. Except there’s no girls here.”

“I loathe narcissism, but I approve of vanity.”
-Diana Vreeland

Friday, April 18, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 26


Friday, April 18, 2008

"I’m gonna steal your girlfriend."

“Every writer is a narcissist. This does not mean that he is vain; it only means that he is hopelessly self-absorbed.”
-Leo Rosten

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 25


Thursday, April 17, 2008

Yeah, I know . . . I know.

“Self-love seems so often unrequited.”
-Anthony Powell

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 24


Wednesday, April 16, 2008

“I wrote a song about her. I bet that’s more than her boyfriend the drummer can say.”
“Yeah, what does he do? Keep time in honor of her?”

“Whoever loves becomes humble. Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism.”
-Sigmund Freud

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 23


Tuesday, April 15, 2008

“Go to class, Tom!” -Chelsea

[ The narcissist is preoccupied with himself, his preferences, needs and aspirations and with his fantasies of unlimited success. ]

Monday, April 14, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 22


Monday, April 14, 2008

I didn’t take this of myself, nor did I ask anyone to photograph me sleeping.

[ The narcissist is inclined to lie or deceive. ]

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 21


Sunday, April 13, 2008

You can't really see the tears, but they're flowing, (because of the quote below).

"Narcissus weeps to find that his Image does not return his love.”
-Mason Cooley

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 20

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Meghan’s first birthday!!!

"Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people."
-Andre Dubus

Friday, April 11, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 19


Friday, April 11, 2008

Bouncing reference mixes for the new Umphrey’s McGee album.

"The megalomaniac differs from the narcissist by the fact that he wishes to be powerful rather than charming, and seeks to be feared rather than loved. To this type belong many lunatics and most of the great men of history.”
-Bertrand Russell

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 18


Thursday, April 10, 2008

Singing/Playing a song of mine.

"Self-love is often rather arrogant than blind; it does not hide our faults from ourselves, but persuades us that they escape the notice of others.”
-Samuel Johnson

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 17


Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Politics, Philosophy, Religion, Life, Love, and a 6 A.M. one-mile walk home east through the dawn mist as the sun rose.

"Narcissist: psychoanalytic term for the person who loves himself more than his analyst; considered to be the manifestation of a dire mental disease whose successful treatment depends on the patient learning to love the analyst more and himself less.”
-Thomas Szasz

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 16


Tuesday, April 8, 2008

"Why you at the bar if you aint poppin' the bottles?"

[ The narcissist appears to be devoid of empathy (although it is sometimes suggested that the narcissist can, to some extent, empathise with other narcissists). ]

Monday, April 7, 2008

Another Sixty Days of Tommy P: Day 15


Monday, April 7, 2008

Shot-gunning a Monster. It's probably not good to stay up all night . . . two nights in a row. But time will tell.

"Narcissism and self-deception are survival mechanisms without which many of us might just jump off a bridge."
-Todd Solondz